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Thinking Aloud
Getting a life
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Right now, I am in a point in my life where I feel totally lost. Prior to this, I felt so sure of myself, so certain about the place where I wanted to go, what I wanted to accomplish.
Now, I am torn between the feeling of not being satisfied with oneself and the depressing thought that perhaps things do not really end up as planned.
Part of me says, "Hang in there. If you stick with what you really want, it will happen."
Another part says, "Get real. Change plans before you disappoint yourself."
These internal conflicts led me to realize that I need to know myself better. Because only then can I make justified choices.
So there, I am now traversing the unknown path that is myself.
Obtenir une vie
Automatically translated into French thanks to WorldLingo
En ce moment, je suis dans un point dans ma vie où je me sens totalement perdu. Avant ceci, je me suis senti si sûr de me, si certain au sujet de l'endroit où j'ai voulu aller, ce que j'ai voulu accomplir.
Maintenant, je suis déchiré entre le sentiment de ne pas être satisfait de s'et la pensée baissante que peut-être les choses ne finissent pas vraiment vers le haut comme prévu.
Une partie de moi dit, « coup dedans là. Si vous le bâton avec ce que vous voulez vraiment, il vous produirez. Une «
autre partie indique, « obtenez vrai. Changez les plans avant que vous vous déceviez. «
Ces conflits internes m'ont mené à me rendre compte que je dois me connaître mieux. Puisque seulement alors peux je faire des choix justifiés.
Donc là, je traverse maintenant le chemin inconnu qui est moi-même.
Conseguir una vida
Automatically translated into Spanish thanks to WorldLingo
Ahora, soy en un punto en mi vida donde me siento totalmente perdido. Antes de esto, me sentía tan seguro de me, tan seguro sobre el lugar en donde deseé ir, qué deseé lograr.
Ahora, me rasgan entre la sensación de la satisfacción con se y el pensamiento que presiona que quizás las cosas realmente no terminan para arriba tal y como previsto.
La parte de mí dice, “caída adentro allí. Si usted el palillo con lo que usted realmente desea, él sucede. “
Otra parte dice, “consiga verdadero. Cambie los planes antes de que usted se decepcione. “
Estos conflictos internos me condujeron a realizar que necesito conocerme mejor. Porque entonces puedo hacer solamente opciones justificadas.
Tan allí, ahora estoy atravesando la trayectoria desconocida que es misma.
Ottenere una vita
Automatically translated into Italian thanks to WorldLingo
Ora, sono in un punto nella mia vita dove ritengo completamente perso. Prima di questo, ho ritenuto così sicuro di me, così sicuro circa il posto in cui ho desiderato andare, che cosa ho desiderato compire.
Ora, sono strappato fra la sensibilità della soddisfazione con se stesso ed il pensiero deprimente che forse le cose realmente non concludono in su come previsto.
La parte di me dice, “caduta dentro là. Se bastone con che cosa realmente desiderate, esso accadrete. “
Un'altra parte dice, “ottenga reale. Cambi i programmi prima che vi deludiate. “
Questi conflitti interni lo hanno condotto rendersi conto che devo conoscermi più meglio. Poiché allora posso fare soltanto le scelte giustificate.
Così là, ora sto attraversando il percorso sconosciuto che è io stesso.
Erhalten eines Lebens
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Im Augenblick bin ich in einem Punkt in meinem Leben, in dem ich total verloren fühle. Vor diesem fühlte ich von mich so sicher, so sicher über den Platz, in dem ich gehen wollte, was ich vollenden wollte.
Jetzt werde ich zwischen das Gefühl von nicht mit selbst erfüllt sein und den deprimierenden Gedanken heftig gezerrissen, die möglicherweise Sachen nicht wirklich oben wie vorgesehen beenden.
Der Teil von mir sagt, „Fall innen dort. Wenn Sie Stock mit was Sie wirklich wünschen, es geschehen. „
Ein anderes Teil sagt, „erhalten Sie real. Ändern Sie Pläne, bevor Sie sich enttäuschen. „
Diese internen Konflikte führten mich, festzustellen, daß ich mich besser kennen muß. Weil nur ich gerechtfertigte Wahlen dann treffen kann.
So dort, überquere ich jetzt den unbekannten Weg, der selbst ist.
Começando uma vida
Automatically translated into Portuguese thanks to WorldLingo
Endireite agora, mim são em um ponto em minha vida onde eu sinto totalmente perdido. Antes deste, eu senti assim certo de myself, assim certo sobre o lugar onde eu quis ir, o que eu quis realizar.
Agora, eu sou rasgado entre o sentimento de não ser satisfeito com oneself e o pensamento comprimindo que talvez as coisas não terminam realmente acima como de planeamento.
A parte de mim diz, “cair dentro lá. Se você a vara com o que você quer realmente, ele acontecer. Uma “
outra parte diz, “comece real. Mude plantas antes que você se decepcione yourself. “
Estes conflitos internos conduziram-me realizar que eu necessito se conhecer mais melhor myself. Porque somente então posso eu fazer escolhas justificadas.
Assim lá, eu estou atravessando agora o trajeto desconhecido que é eu mesmo.
Få ett liv
Automatically translated into Swedish thanks to WorldLingo
Högert nu, I-förmiddag i en peka i mitt liv var totalt borttappad I-känselförnimmelse. Före detta klädde med filt jag så säkert av jag själv, så bestämt om förlägga, var jag önskade att gå, vad jag önskade att utföra.
Nu I-förmiddag som är sönderriven mellan känslan av att inte tillfredsställas med honom, och den deprimerande tanken som kanske saker inte avslutar egentligen upp som planerat.
Del av mig något att säga, ”hängning in där. Om du pinnen med vad du önskar egentligen, det ska, händ. ”
Får en andra delnågot att säga, ”verkliga. Ändra planerar, för du sviker sig yourself. ”
Ledde dessa inre konflikter mig för att realisera att jag behöver att veta jag själv bättre. Därför att endast därefter kan jag göra befogade val.
Så där, I-förmiddag som korsar nu den okända banan som är jag själv.
Получать жизнь
Automatically translated into Russian thanks to WorldLingo
Right now, я в пункте в моей жизни где я чувствую полно lost. До этого, я чувствовал настолько уверенным себя, настолько уверенн о месте где я хотел пойти, я хотел выполнить.
Теперь, я сорван между ощупыванием не удовлетворяться с собой и отжимая мыслью которое возможно вещи реально не кончают вверх как запланировано.
Часть меня говорит, «Hang внутри там. Если вы ручка с вы реально хотите, оно случитесь. «
Другая часть говорит, «получите реальным. Измените планы прежде чем вы разочаровываете. «
Эти внутренне конфликты вели меня осуществить что мне нужно знать более лучше. Потому что только после этого могу я сделать оправданные выборы.
Настолько там, я теперь траверсирую неизвестный курс себя который.
Het krijgen van het leven
Automatically translated into Dutch thanks to WorldLingo
Op dit ogenblik, ben ik in een punt in mijn leven waar ik totaal verloren voel. Voorafgaand aan dit, voelde ik zo zeker van mij, zo sommige over de plaats waar ik wilde gaan, wat ik wilde verwezenlijken.
Nu, ben ik gescheurd tussen het gevoel van niet wordt tevredengesteld met oneself en de deprimerende gedachte geen dat misschien de dingen werkelijk omhoog zoals gepland beëindigen.
Een deel van me zegt, „hang daar in. Als u plakt met wat u werkelijk wilt, zal het gebeuren. „
Een ander deel zegt, „word echt. De plannen van de verandering alvorens u zich teleurstelt. „
Deze interne conflicten brachten me ertoe om te realiseren dat ik moet beter kennen. Omdat slechts dan kan rechtvaardigde ik maken keuzen.
Zo daar, steek ik nu de onbekende weg die zelf is over.
يحصل حياة
Automatically translated into Arabic thanks to WorldLingo
حاليّا, أنا في نقطة في حياتي حيث أنا أشعر تماما ضائعة. قبل هذا, [فلت] أنا هكذا يوقن من بنفسي, هكذا مؤكّدة حول المكان حيث أنا أردت أن يذهب, ماذا أنا أردت أن ينجز.
الآن, مزّقت أنا بين الإحساس من لا يكون يرضى مع بنفسي وال يخفّض فكرة أنّ ربّما أشياء لا حقّا ينهون فوق [أس بلنّد].
يقول جزء من ي, "تعليق داخل هناك. إن أنت عصا مع ماذا أنت حقّا تريد, هو ستحدث. "
يقول آخر جزء, "حصلت حقيقيّة. غيّرت خطط قبل أن يخيّببنفسي أنت. "
قادني هذا نزاعات داخليّة أن يحقّق أنّ أنا أحتاج أن يعرفبنفسي على نحو أفضل. لأنّ فقط بعد ذلك يستطيع أنا جعلت يبرّر إختبار.
هكذا هناك, يجتاز أنا الآن الممر مجهولة أنّ يكون بنفسي.
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happened to me too. the best thing to do is to neevr regret that things never happened the way you wanted them to because that way you'll lose out on planning what to do next. good luck.
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Good luck!!
There was really time in your life when you will feel so unsure of the things that you are doing. Don’t worry! You are not alone! Almost every youth are passing in that state where they want to know their self better for they are feeling very unsure and doubtful. I am hoping that you can make it through! Anyway, you can try to relax a bit and try Greek foods. If you live in Chicago and love Greek food, then this will make your day – Kronos Gyros is giving out free food. That's right – free gyros from Kronos Gyros. All you have to do is go to the Kronos website and print out the free coupon – then take it to any participating location in the Chicago area, which is featured on the Kronos website. Kronos isn't a restaurant; they are actually a restaurant supply company that specializes in Greek delicacies. (Gyros are particularly succulent when laden with tzatziki and hummus, or baba ganoush…delectable.) So if you want some delicious free Kronos Gyros, get the coupon – it's easier than applying for mortgage loan modification.
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That is life
You know it is normal to have such a feeling.Life is made up of ups an downs.Just try to be as positive as possible. No situation is permanent.But the need of the realisation of what we are is the best.
Best
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To you...and me...and everyone else.
If you wan't it take it.
After all, we only live once.
Here is a qoute from my old athletics coach: "there is nothing you cannot do, it all depends on how bad you really want it"
Live the dream in you!
All the best!
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Hey it is my birthday today and millions of other share this same day I was made to ensure that you make it today take each day which are different one day at a time always hope for the best for this is the day that the lord has made you must rejoice and be glad in it.GUARD YOUR THOUGHTS you decide what you will listen to thought become words words become actions, actions form habits form character.think good thoughts it has been working all my life.
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hi
You know what, i was so suprised to read this entry because it describes exactly what I am going through right now. I feel like I have lost that sense of being sure of what i want, I feel confused and i do not know what path to take from here. My consolation comes from knowing that this is a temporary situation and that i will emerge stronger from it. I am learning alot including how to filter my thoughts and take in only the constructive ones. I wonder how you are dealing with the situation, it would be nice to know.
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Hi
Hi dear, been a while
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I think I have an idea of what you mean
When I was an undergrad in UP I had very specific goals, but after graduation and some more experiences in the industry, and of course a lot of thinking (and I mean a lot) I still find myself currently unable to fully comprehend and accept my status quo.
I think what I need is a little more time, more experiences and exposure with regards to what I intend to do for the foreseeable future, and with whom I'll be doing those things with. In other words, I need more 'data' of sort, to get a better perspective/vantage point of where I need to go.
I certainly agree with what you mentioned about the need to know one's self more, especially due to these conflicting ideas, expectations, and my status quo. I think I need to look more internally, but externally as well, as I'm a very introverted person. Introversion can sometimes have its pitfalls, but I prefer it most of the time nonetheless. But still, a little extroversion from time to time shouldn't hurt...
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My problem was that I always wanted to have a full-proof plan for my future. I like making Plan A's and Plan B's and Plan C's for those "just-in-case" moments. But never really know, do we?
Right, we definitely need more "data". I'm currently in that phase and I just realized that I shouldn't be afraid of making mistakes. Better to just keep the ball rolling and just grab hold of the good opportunities that come my way.
If introversion is your thing, so be it! But yeah, the extrovert's social skills do come in handy once in a while. Im sure you can handle it.
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I think being well informed about a great many things, as well as being trained as an engineer really help me make those Plan C's you mentioned. Of course we can't anticipate everything, but I try to narrow down the ones that maximize my efforts and those that are significantly injurious to myself/future. I don't know about you but I prefer to have plan B and C with my plan A, than just have plan A alone.
Yes I'm more often than not an introvert, but I'm slowly learning the benefits of extroversion, not that I want to really be extroverted more.
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"I don't know about you but I prefer to have plan B and C with my plan A, than just have plan A alone."
-Of course! What I meant by my statement in my earlier comment was that I always wanted to be sure about everything to the point that I was overanalyzing things and ended up complicating what seemingly was just a simple problem.
"but I try to narrow down the ones that maximize my efforts and those that are significantly injurious to myself/future"
-this tells me you've gone further in "data collecting" than I have. I am currently at a point where I still cannot distinguish which efforts will be injurious to my future, except for the very obvious ones, of course. Or perhaps I already have all the data I need but just haven't "organized" them yet?
UP Engg ka pala. No wonder I feel like I've had this conversation before.
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@Sandy
Actually that's (over analysis) one of the things that come as good-bad to me, but more often than not good I suppose. Imagine this scenario I sometimes find myself into:
I usually buy brand X of milk. However, the supermarket is currently out of stock with brand X, so either I (a) Don't buy milk or (b) buy another brand. Now, if I take (a), do I allow myself to go on without milk for X number of days (assuming I can't go back so soon or the sales attendants have an inkling of when the stock will be replenished, which is usually not the case...). If I take (b) I need to quickly go over brand Y's calorie values, as well as calcium, protein, carbohydrates, etc. while also factoring in the price per mass (hey, value for my money right?) considering I consume at least one/2 glass/es of milk per day. Then there's the issue of the brand Y's manufacturer. Do I trust this company? What do I know about this company so far, from tv (I watch a little when I go home to the province...), the Internet, from friends, other ads, etc. Does the company try to stay 'green' for the environment? Is it a locally made but quality product (I try to support local businesses as much as I can)?
And so on and so forth. So you see, it can really be a hell in my head at times. And I think you can imagine that sometimes, I can really take a while even with just buying groceries. But as long as not a lot of new stimuli/data come in during grocery buying, I usually do it quite fast since I just usually head to and get the things I need to buy. :D
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@sandy
"this tells me you've gone further in "data collecting" than I have. I am currently at a point where I still cannot distinguish which efforts will be injurious to my future, except for the very obvious ones, of course. Or perhaps I already have all the data I need but just haven't "organized" them yet?"
Since I don't know you well enough, it would be too presumptuous of me to say which one, though if you'd ask me to take a stab/guess at it, I'd say it may be a little bit of both, but leaning on the latter (not yet organized) part. The reason being that UP education, as my English 11 teacher told us once, will not leave you 'unscathed' in one way/aspect of your life or another, before graduating. Especially more so with you and your activities and involvements. So, what I'm driving at here is that perhaps you need a bit more organization, or even a change of perspective for a while, just to try and put some of the 'data' in their proper place.
Yes, UPD Eng'g.
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